Thursday, May 21, 2015

The House - part 2

So yesterday I talked about our plan to stay in the house until it sells.  This is a sacrifice we are making for the greater good.  If we really didn't think that all of this will lead to a better quality of life when it is all said and done, we wouldn't do it.  And we did talk about giving up on all of this, and waiting for a job to open up here in CT, at which point G-man would apply and try and come back.  But no...no pain, no gain. 

When we put the house on the market, we really did not think we would still be here come summer....or in the least it would be that the house was sold and we were on our way out.  Yeah, not so much.  So here I am, taking care of the house....the Spring version!  The Winter version was dealing with 7 feet of snow....the Spring version is a whole other ball game.

Keeping up the house

Spring and Summer has brought new challenges to selling the house.  We have been maintaining the house itself fairly well, and I have gotten much faster at getting the house ready for a showing.  But now there is a whole OUTSIDE of the house to deal with.

In the 2 dozen showings, we have only had one small comment about the yard (someone who loved the house and were considering making an offer, but didn't want a pool).  Otherwise, we haven't had any comments, positive or negative.  But of course you always want to put your best foot forward, and the yard is the first thing you see when you pull up to the house.

Let me tell ya...I thought that the snow was rough.  And it was.  But I will take the snow over all of this that I do now!


The Grass
I now have to mow the lawn.  I hadn't done this in over 20 years.  We have a basic walk-behind type mower, and once I got the hang of it, it was fine. Takes me about 45 min to mow everything.    The lawn gets mowed about once a week.  I hate when I mow on Sunday, then we have a showing on Wednesday....the lawn isn't ready to be mowed again, but it has lost its freshly mowed look.  But I can't control when the showings are, or the weather.  So I mow it when it needs it and I can.

I had to spray weed killer, and couldn't get the hose to stretch to the back of the yard, so I did the best I could.  I probably got about 3/4 of the property.  The way back of the yard wasn't too bad, so I didn't stress about it.

I am afraid of the weed whacker, and G-man has already said it is very heavy and hard to handle.  Yeah, I am not going there.  So....the areas that I can't reach with the mower.....I cut with scissors!  Yes, I cut the edge with scissors.  I feel stupid, but it is better than screwing it all up with the weed whacker.  Snip, snip, snip.  It is mostly along the edges where we have the flowers and we built it up with pavers.


The Front Porch
I am going to repaint the porch, as the snow shovel and snow beat it up a little.  Or more specifically, the 1/3 of the porch near the door got a little beat.  The other 2/3 of it is fine, but since I will be painting, I might as well do the whole thing.  We have extra paint, so no expense...just time. That will be Memorial Day weekend, since the likelihood of showings will be low, and it will have an extra day to dry.  I also bought spray paint to freshen the mailbox and the wreath hanger on the door.  I added a planter to the porch with flowers, so it looks more home-y.

The Deck
The deck really needs to be reboarded, but we weren't about to start that now.  Then came the idea to restain it (putting lipstick on a pig, as my husband said).  Research showed that would require WAY more work than I could do in a short period of time (I could use the "shortcut" stain and not sand the floor, but couldn't use that product for the lattice that surrounds the deck.  The lattice required a different product, and that would require sanding). Just for giggles, I called a few places and found out it would be about $2000 to have someone come do it (dealing with those guys on the phone was a delight). 

OK...so that isn't going to work.  So the final decision was to "stage" the deck.  Any money we put into this project would at least be for "us" as we would take it all with us.  I moved our conversation chairs to the upper deck (which surrounds the pool), and bought 2 expensive side tables.  I made some placemat pillows that we put out for showings (I haven't had a chance to waterproof them, so they move inside and out), along with some candles.  For the lower deck, we bought a patio set and 2 trips to Home Depot to get it home and several hours to put it together (nothing lined up, I had to order a replacement part for a defective part...then they sent the wrong part...) and we have a more put together look. I got some stuff to dress the table, a few pots for plants, more placemat pillows.  I even got a rug (the rug still needs some pizazz, which I am hoping will be a project for this weekend).  Total cost....$550.

When we have a showing, I sweep it all, wipe all the tables, set the table, place the pillows.  It helps distract from the deck that needs a facelift.

I really didn't want to buy this stuff.  No one has said that the deck was a negative. But I was also looking at trying to sell a "lifestyle."  Sitting on the deck with your beverage of choice, taking a dip in the pool.  Still, I wasn't thrilled spending the money.  It came from our "moving" savings, so no new debt.


The Flowers/Follage Beds
I planted some annuals in the front (a few didn't make it....sad).  I still need to dig out some of the built up mulch and put fresh mulch down.  We also have large beds on the sides of the property that have follage, and now I am dealing with cleaning those out as well.  Weeds, sticks, misc stuff.

My peonies are on the "unused" side of the house, and they aren't even close to blooming yet.  But another Memorial Day project will be cleaning up that side of the house.

Darn weeds....you pluck them...and they come back!  Why can't this be a "one and done" type project?


But alas.....none of this compares to the biggest adventure....and probably the one thing that is turning out to be the deciding fate.....The Pool.  Remember I said that something happened?  Remember I said be careful what you wish for????

18 comments:

  1. I hope this makes more people want to visit the house. Has your realtor taken up to date photos of the newly staged areas?

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    1. We have plenty of people visit...just not make an offer. As for pictures...no new pictures. Remember I said something changed.....

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  2. I can't stand the cliffhanger! I am thinking of all sorts of good and bad things. Come out with it! :o/ :o)

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  3. In Canada, I have always heard that pools are not a selling feature and often times detract from a sale. I am sure it is the upkeep along with the getting it ready for winter, and of course the insurance and legalities associated with owning one. Is yours an above ground? Might be worth it to have it removed if it is. I could see an I ground pool being a much bigger headache to remove and fill in. If you do not want to do that, could you have it filled, sparkling clean and staged. That might sell it especially if it is a hot day. Ask your realtor to have open houses on crazy hot days...lol (unless you don't have central air which might backfire)😊.

    Not sure what will help but it sounds like you are trying.

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    1. Above ground pool. Not as easy to remove as you think. No central air.

      Wait.....just wait.....

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  4. I think it was money well spent sprucing up the outside of the house. Those little things really do make an impression on people, especially when they couldn't envision themselves what to do with a space. The market is so hot here that realtors are having trouble finding properties to show buyers. I hope that moves your way soon! And I'm with 444 - these cliffhangers are killing me!

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    1. The market is very hot where we are going. I look at houses for reference....not because any of them will be available when we are ready.

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  5. I am curious to see where this is all leading!

    The first home we bought had an above ground pool. We liked the house immediately, but hated the pool ... having no experience with one, a pool just seemed like a lot of work and a big liability for something we likely wouldn't use much (two adults working full time and living in the arctic tundra). Our offer was contingent upon the owners removing the pool and the pool decking. Unfortunately, we didn't think of the gaping wound in the yard and all of the landscaping rocks that would be left after the pool & decking were removed ... we took care of that ourselves, but it was sure a PITA!

    Anyway, I hope you find a buyer soon. I'd hate to be living in limbo like that for so long.

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    1. Gold star! You have just stated one of the big issues....stay tuned!

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  6. All the things you talked about are why we're still living in a house too big for us, neither of us can face the work involved in getting it ready to sell.
    I remember a year when my husband had orders to Turkey (Army) and he left ahead of us while I got the house ready to rent out. We had an inground pool and I couldn't get it to clean up to save my life, even had nightmares about there being a dead body in the bottom of it. I finally called our pool guy and had him drain the pool and started from scratch. A bit costly, but it saved my sanity.

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  7. Have you considered selling the pool? List it as the buyer disassembles and takes. That's how we got our pool. We were young and broke and it was a great deal! Also, my husband works a ton and is never home and we have a toddler. I don't have time for things that require maintenance, though i LOVE gardening. So, once a month or so i "weed" the flower beds with round up. I fill up a hand sprayer and turn the nozzle down to as narrow of a stream as i can and zap each individual weed. We also lay down thick mulch. It works amazingly well. My flower beds look fantastic and this mama is much less stressed!

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    1. Selling the pool isn't an option....

      My flower beds aren't bad.....it is the big bed under the trees that is killing me!

      You all are gonna have to wait for the story!

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    2. Oh man... now i'm dying to hear the rest of the story!

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  8. Seriously, my hates off to you. I am an absolute mess when it comes to selling a house. I go overboard and am way too emotional. This is a cliff hanger story though. All the comments are making me laugh this morning.

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    1. I tend to go overboard as well, but I am forcing myself to keep things in check. I am not emotional anymore about the actual house. I am emotional about the stress.

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  9. I know all about yard work my friend. Nothing about a pool. I have several neighbors with pools and they all hate the work. You are a saint, except for keeping us waiting.....

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    1. Pools suck. Don't get one.

      Tomorrow.....you will hear about the pool tomorrow. ...

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